Lost

Here to write about a very unpopular truth: society has programmed Us to obey.
To listen and execute, no question asked. To believe we have to take the only one path in life...the One designed by otherS '

Children. We are conditioned to think and believe that having children is a MUST.
Something beautiful what will change us for the best.
Well, it is only one side of the story. No one talks about losing freedom, autonomy and ourselves .
And, when you loose these three most important things, you do not have anything worthy.
Because, without autonomy and freedom,which you
loose already by entering into a relationship,when you add Children into equation,there is simply no yourself.You simply cease to exist. Your body and
mind are no longer yours.

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